Think of some famous sexy women… who do you think of? You might think of celebrities like Angelina Jolie or Jessica Alba, and they’re not sexy because they wear mini skirts and boob tubes, but because they’re classy and alluring women (although mini skirts and boob tubes are cool in certain contexts). There’s a fine line between sexy and trashy, and I think (from what I’ve seen in malls or clubs) some people aren’t sure where that line is, or simply don’t care. I’m sure you’re all aware of power of clothing; as superficial as it is, it can, in fact, help you attract the things you want in life. So why not use that medium to reap the benefits?

There’s three parts of the body that women bare the most; legs, mid-section and cleavage. To ooze sex appeal, the trick is to only flaunt one out of the three areas. Once you bare more than that you run the risk of looking a little… well, trashy. So it’s all about balance. Below are a few examples for women who want to look sexy and classy.

Tailored pants balance the kinky corset. Imagine if you wore the corset with a mini skirt - it would completely change the look of the outfit. So here you get to show off your lovely decolletage and maybe even a bit of cleavage. And even though people can’t see it, wearing some sexy lingerie will make you feel sexy, and that will emanate through your mannerisms and aura. (Article on how to feel sexy coming soon!) Click picture for product information.

Skirts don’t have to be so short that bending over becomes a game of peek-a-boo. A fitted pencil skirt hugs your curves and gives that 1940’s pin-up look - va-va-voom! And again it’s about balance; a loose top paired with a fitted skirt doesn’t over-do the sexy look, but you can still show a bit of leg in a sophisticated way. Click picture for product information.

Black and red scream sex appeal, although too much black should be worn sparingly as it can sometimes give a hostile feeling. Wearing all black is not a good idea for a first date or meeting. Red lipstick, depending on the shade of red, makes any woman look and feel hot. Think Marilyn Monroe. And although heels are like the symbol for sexy, not everyone (including me!) can wear them. If you’re constantly worried about falling over in them, then stay clear. Flats can look rather lascivious too, when pair with the right accessories. Click picture for product information.

I don’t think I’ve ever worn shorts within the last 15 years, I just can’t pull them off - aesthetically, that is! But I think they look damn hot when properly worn. The trick is to wear tailored, well kept clothing - without holes and breakfast stains on the front! You don’t have to spend a fortune on quality garments, you just have to be neat and tidy to look sexy and classy. Click picture for product information.

Big love and luscious lips,

P.S. I’m having a small operation tomorrow so I’m not sure when I’ll be back. I’m just dreading to have to wear one of these. (Ahh!!) Wish me luck!

Ivyology on May 20th, 2008 | File Under How to | -