How To Change The World - 29th July 2008
“No vision and you perish; No Ideal, and you’re lost; Your heart must ever cherish, Some faith at any cost. Some hope, some dream to cling to, Some rainbow in the sky, Some melody to sing to, Some service that is high.” - Harriet Du Autermont
Here are this week’s three deeds to bring about some change, freedom and restoration to you and your universe:
Reveal a secret - As you may know, I’m a huge fan of PostSecret. Every week, people from around the world (anonymously) send in a postcard, or photo, or some other image which (usually) reflects a secret that they’ve written on the front. The secret gets posted on the website for millions of people to read each week. The PostSecret community has been known to heal emotional and spiritual wounds, and even save lives through their forum. This is a great outlet for revealing a secret that’s been weighing on your shoulders, and because it’s totally private, you still get the therapeutic benefits without having to confront people face-to-face. You don’t have to use PostSecret, you might just want to stick a post-it note on the fridge at work, or a shop window, or put it in someone’s letter box. Or you could be brave and tell a friend, relative, social worker, or even go to confession! Either way, bottling up secrets and hidden guilts can manifest themselves into serious illnesses and ailments. I once had a fortune cookie that read “there’s no pillow as soft as a clear conscious” - and it’s so true! It’s vital to wake up every morning and have a clear conscious, so why not start by revealing your darkest and deepest secret? You could even write it anonymously in the comments below!
Write a list of ‘things to do before you die’ - We all know the saying “live every day like it’s your last”, right? But how many of us actually put that into action? I’ll admit it, I’m guilty of bailing out on things, not taking as many risks as I’d like to, and not putting (all) of my dreams into action. But there’s no time like the present - your life is happening right now. So write a list of all the things you’ve wanted to do in life, even if they seem far-fetched. It could be jumping out of a plane, owning your own coffee shop, telling someone you’re sorry, dyeing your hair pink, learning the salsa or becoming a politician! Write them down and order them from most important to least important. This will give you a good indication of your priorities, values and morals, too. Try and do one of the things on your list at least once a month, and let others know your wishes too. You’ll be surprised how many people will offer their assistance. Check this out for inspiration.
Tell the world “I’ll do it, but only if you’ll help” - I found a truly awesome site called PledgeBank, which is where people pledge an act online (one that will change the world for the better, of course, not something like ‘run down the street nekked’), promising to do something but only if a certain amount of other people promise to do it too. When enough people have signed up, everyone undertakes their pledge. It’s the perfect way to make 5, 10 or 500 times of an impact as you would have done by yourself.
What kind of pledge do you think you’d make? And what have you always wanted to do in life but thought it was ‘out of your league’ or you didn’t have the time/money/energy for it?
Big love & cuddle-pie,



















July 29th, 2008 at 4:44 pm
aaah you’re posts are always so wonderful! I love the pledge idea a whole lot.
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July 29th, 2008 at 7:15 pm
wow , you havnt mentioned the website url . this pledge idea is cool.
July 29th, 2008 at 11:01 pm
These are fabulous ideas, as usual =). I love the Pledge Bank site, it looks like such an incredible idea!
July 30th, 2008 at 8:09 am
Oh, what a nice post! I’ve always loved postsecret, it’s such a lovely idea. There is another cool website - http://iamneurotic.com/
People post their neuroses, from the trivial to the serious ones. It’s comforting to see that you’re not the only person who, for instance prefers even to odd numbers, or checks whether the door is locked 10 times before going to bed, or whatever. I find it sweet, all the quirky little things people do.
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July 30th, 2008 at 7:58 pm
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MYOFMC - Yup, I definitely added the link. All the words highlighted pink are links
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Ayesha - Thank you, lovely! Not only do I love that site, but I love everyone whose joining in on the action! People are cool
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Natasha - Wow, I’m now hooked on iamneurotic! Haha, that’s such a cool site, it’s facinating! Thanks so much for sharing
July 30th, 2008 at 11:56 pm
Another website I stumbled upon is:
http://www.marcandangel.com/2008/06/02/50-things-everyone-should-know-how-to-do/
I think these are also necessities for accomplishing before you die
August 1st, 2008 at 4:07 am
I love the ideas…Post Secret is a pretty neat thing to read, pledge bank sounds very cool. I need a list of things to do before I die, too.
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August 1st, 2008 at 2:06 pm
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Chelle - Yup! I’ll have a look at that soon. I designed an ad but then I couldn’t work out how to change the pic! I’m sure there’s a way.. Thank you for the offer though, I might just need your help! Hehe